Boating on Black Hawk

    I got up and had  devo.    We spent most of the day doing odd and end details in the bunk house.  I painted the screws in the ceiling and painted some of the paneling glossy white for the bathroom area.  Denny took down the front door carving and I cleaned an polyeurathaned it before he put it back up.  Denny sanded and reinforced and painted the white enamel cabinet so the microwave can  sit on it.  I'll line it with wallpaper or fabric to cover the rusted inside shelves.  Bergmans called about 3 and asked us if we wanted to ride their pontoon over at Lakeview around 6.  It was such a fun relaxing night.  We were out on the lake until 11.  Past my bedtime.

I copied, pasted, and (slightly edited) this reading from facebook:   

On our most recent family get together at the farm. I pondered life.  It’s something I’m pretty sure only moms of big kids (or pre-big kids) can really understand: that the older your children get, the more time together takes on epic significance because you know just how much it took to get to that place and you don’t know when you all might find your way back there again.       Gathering an entire family (which may include teens and young adults) for any extended length of time is a feat of scheduling, negotiation, and preference management. International treaties have been worked out in fewer steps. The sheer number of details that have to line up is mind-boggling.       The same goes for multigenerational family dinners and holidays and other moments whose casts include older kids who have other things to do (have to do, want to do) and other people to do them with or for (bosses, friends, coaches, teammates, significant others).      So as moms, when we look at our people all together at a table or sprawled on couches or posing in front of some scenic backdrop for an obligatory family photo, we think we never know when or if we’ll see them just this way again.       We see days past and envision them spilling over into the present and future.     We see the relational house that love and time built and imagine adding onto it.     We do this for the same baseline reason we do everything as moms: WE LOVE OUR PEOPLE.     We love spending time with them. We love watching them interact with each other. We love hearing them laugh together. We love seeing who they’ve become...and who they’re becoming.      And so, dear spouses and teenagers and adult children of the world, if the mom of your family gets a little meltdowny when all you’re trying to do is sightsee or play a game or eat a meal together, please try to understand what that “together” represents to her.      You will tell her, kindly and with the most reassuring of intentions, that it doesn’t matter if everything doesn’t work out.    But you see, it matters to her, because YOU matter to her. If she’s falling apart, it’s because she wants so much to hold you all together.